Showing posts with label Desire. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Desire. Show all posts

Saturday, November 20

THE DESIRE FOR CHANGE

In order to change long-established habits, you must want to change. Note that desire was the first step in our change model. It was discussed from the previous post. What we suggest is not simple, and change is not for everyone. All the suggestions in the world are worthless if you don not want to change. And changing the way you use your time is largely a voluntary effort. You cannot force others to use their time well and they cannot force you to use your time well. The "want to" must come from within.
Habit change is extremely difficult, but it is crucial for all serious-minded people who wish to use time well. To improve your efforts to eliminate self defeating habits and replace them with self reinforcing habits, try following these approaches:

STEPS IN BEHAVIOR CHANGE

There are five steps involved in successful behavior change:

1. Desire
2. Knowledge
3. Visualization
4. Planning
5. Action

No change will take place without the desire to make a change. How much do you really want to change your work habits so you will function more effectively? Desire is the key to success or failure. If you have a strong desire, you will probably initiate the change. But if you really don't want to make the change, you will probably never do so.