Once you have accepted the fact that you cannot do everything and have stopped living as though you can, you have taken a big step toward becoming an effective time manager. Identifying priorities will become second nature. Acting on the basis of priorities will become easier. In your efforts to control time, your understanding of time and attitude toward time are crucial to your success.
Many people refer to time as a resource. A resource is something that lies ready for use, or something that can be drawn upon for aid. Time fits this definition. Begin to accept time as your most important resource. Time is a tool that can be drawn upon to help you accomplish results, an aid that can take care of a need, an assistant in solving problems. However, time is not like other resources, because you can't buy, sell it, rent, steal it, borrow it, lend it, store it, save it, multiply it, manufacture it or change it. All you can do is spend it.